Memorial Day Memories

Today is a day that most people shop sales, hold barbecues, and party. But for some of us Memorial Day memories aren’t as lighthearted. I want to take the time to remind everyone what Memorial Day should really be about.

Memorial Day Memories

Some gave all.

Memorial Day began in the years after the Civil War in which more men died than any other war in our nation’s history. The day was originally called Decoration Day. By the late 1860’s towns had begun holding events to decorate the graves of the fallen and to say prayers.

On May 5, 1868, General John A. Logan, leader of an organization for Northern Civil War veterans, called for a nationwide day of remembrance later that month. “The 30th of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers, or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village and hamlet churchyard in the land,” he proclaimed.

General Logan chose the date because no particular battle had been fought on it. General James Garfield, at Arlington Cemetery, made a speech and over 20,000 graves were decorated by more than 5,000 people.

Although it didn’t become an official federal holiday until 1971 I remember my parents “celebrating” Decoration Day in the years before Memorial Day. For my family it is a very different holiday than for many. You see, my oldest brother was a Marine and was killed in action.

My parent’s Memorial Day memories centered around the loss of their firstborn child. Thomas was only 19 when he died. The family received a folded American flag, his Purple Heart and became a Gold Star family. Before Thomas’ death we’d been a 3 Blue Star family.

Memorial Day Memories

Neither of my parents ever got over the loss of Thomas. They carried on, enjoyed the rest of their family, and their lives but there was always a hole.

Memorial Day Memories

As you enjoy your shopping, barbecues, and parties today, please remember the incredibly courageous men and women of the Air Force, Army, Coast Guard, and Marines who gave their lives in service to all of us.

At 3:00 p.m. EDT there is a national moment of remembrance. Please make this part of your Memorial Day Memories.

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5 thoughts on “Memorial Day Memories

    • May 30, 2017 at 10:57 am
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      Thank you. I remember when I turned 20 thinking Thomas never got to be this age.

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    • May 30, 2017 at 10:58 am
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      Thank you. I remember thinking when I turned 20 Thomas never got to be this age.

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  • May 29, 2017 at 3:05 pm
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    Dear Elizabeth, thank you for taking it upon yourself to remind people about the true meaning of this day! This country sorely needs an infusion of patriotism, and honoring the fallen heroes is a way to do it.

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    • May 30, 2017 at 11:02 am
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      Thank you, Dolly. All my brothers served and, thank G-d only one was lost. But it’s so important we remember ALL the fallen.

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